Systematic Chaos

Yes!Good grief!! I got here in Melbourne on the 2nd of May after a long 12 hour journey, towing 2 ton of stuff but was so glad to arrive safely!!!  And am only just blogging again haha.  Having pretty much settled in with my lovely lady,and adjusted to a few extras such as cute kittens and new puppy, its time to find a job!! Groan for it can be difficult......been here twice before in last 18 months having moved to Qld,then Adelaide! Both places too warm and dry for my liking! However it is green here, quite cool and has lots of close services and so it seems nice people!! Am liking it already!! Its also great to see my beautiful gf every day and not stress about being apart!!!

I miss my daughter a bit, but know she has her own life, and that i can hopefully get her over here soon for visits, once i've gained employment and catch up financially etc....

All in all-it is good to be here and I am relatively happy with all at the moment, the only thing marring this is lack of a job, which I'm sure will be a problem solved very soon!

Been a while since I blogged-but tomorrow is the day of my journey to foreign lands and new beginnings!!The trailer and car is loaded,just got tiny bit of cleaning to do tomorrow and its good bye Adelaide. Have had mixed emotions-excited to be starting life with my beautiful gf, yet sad to be leaving my daughter behind,albeit only an hours plane flight away. I think though with some visits she will see things for what they are-that Dad needs a life too and that she is most welcome anytime. Marjorie too has been moving-working hard to organise a place for both of us bless her heart and wearing herself out in the process! Moving is not often a pleasurable experience-but its the end result that motivates most people. And this move has been a long time coming-long distance relationships are great and all but sooner or later the strain shows,and something needs to be done. And I couldn't be happier being part of M's life and sharing our loves of music and many other things with each other!So yay for tomorrow-and all tomorrows after :)

The more connections you and your lover make, not just between your bodies, but between your minds, your hearts, and your souls, the more you will strengthen the fabric of your relationship, and the more real moments you will experience together.
Barbara De Angelis

Today,while eating my lunch sitting in the truck at a shopping centre,a lovely older lady asked if i would mind lifting a 15kg bag of fertilizer out of her trolley into her car. Of course,I immediately obliged,and the deed was done in a matter of minutes,and I was thanked and all was sweet. Small as this gesture was,I felt good that I was actually asked. It raises the point that if asked-would most people jump up to help another? I'd like to think so! I quite often let other cars in front of me in traffic,or collect extra waste just as a gesture of good will. If everyone went that centimetre further.our world would be much more caring and harmonious I believe .Often we are all too self absorbed and so damn competitive we give no thought to helping others!!! And I like to believe it comes back to you-and it does! People often let my truck into very busy trafficways-and I always smile and wave them a brief thanks. It takes nothing to smile and help out a wee bit-and you could make someones day!!!!:)